Written By Mirari
June 19, 2018, 8:01 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Someone go in on a bet with me that Victus and Talen end up in a fist fight among the teapots? Please?
This can only end well.
This can only end well.
Written By Victus
June 19, 2018, 7:34 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
I'm going to a tea party.
At the Velenosa Estate.
... Hm.
At the Velenosa Estate.
... Hm.
Written By Katarina
June 19, 2018, 7:19 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
One could say that most lies are borne out of self-centered desires, rather than true consideration for the feelings of the other party. As children, we often lie out of self-preservation or selfishness; either to get out of trouble or try and manipulate those around them to get what they want. We carry those same base desires into adulthood, only we rationalize those desires away behind any number of reasons we've learned to tell ourselves to be rid of the shackles of guilt and the responsibility we have to ourselves and others to be honest.
I would be disinclined to believe someone who told me they omitted the truth, no matter how inconsequential it might have seen, because they respected me or cared about my feelings. It is the highest insult. I would have greater respect for someone who had the courage to brave the risk of telling me the naked truth, no matter how painful it might be, than to do otherwise out of desire to avoid the minor inconvenience of being the proverbial bearer of bad news or however they wish to explain it away.
It is never acceptable to lie. It is always best to express what you truly think of the actions and beliefs of another. I regard those who strive to do so far more highly, knowing I can rely upon them to be sincere despite the discomfort it may bring.
I would be disinclined to believe someone who told me they omitted the truth, no matter how inconsequential it might have seen, because they respected me or cared about my feelings. It is the highest insult. I would have greater respect for someone who had the courage to brave the risk of telling me the naked truth, no matter how painful it might be, than to do otherwise out of desire to avoid the minor inconvenience of being the proverbial bearer of bad news or however they wish to explain it away.
It is never acceptable to lie. It is always best to express what you truly think of the actions and beliefs of another. I regard those who strive to do so far more highly, knowing I can rely upon them to be sincere despite the discomfort it may bring.
Written By Reigna
June 19, 2018, 6:35 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
People are liars. This is a truth that I have come, painfully, to accept.
Personally, I cannot abide dishonesty which makes it difficult, because I tend to like people.
This is not to say a lie has never passed my lips. I have lied. I was a child, and children are among the most prolific liars there are. Youthful lies tend to be lacking in malice, like those often found in those of an older age. Now that I think about it, seeing those words written, I would hazard that a vast majority of lies told by adults are also lacking in malice. It is an interesting consideration... the motivations of lies. As an adult I have caught myself lying to others and the guilt is there when I realize it. I try to tell myself it is a harmless thing. 'I was just trying to be polite'. That is my most often excuse. Someone suggests something I find offensive or ridiculous, and I thank them for their input. Am I truly grateful? No. Likely I am irritated with their contribution because I consider it silly or obtuse. But I would never, ever, dream of saying that. Of cutting them down in such a way.
Is this a harmless lie? There is a certain social contract that we maintain in society. Pleasantries to be observed, respect shown to our fellows. These are, in most cases, considered obligatory and from a young age, because of the ubiquity of this behavior, we absorb and internalize these rules from a young age. These lies are seemingly, an integral part of the fabric of social interaction. But should they be?
I consider one person that I know well, whose name will not be mentioned, that flies in the face of such conventions. Some of my interactions with this person drive me absolutely insane because of the things that they say, opinions that they voice that rend that fabric to shreds. Because they do not ascribe to the idea of maintaining that obligatory politeness. Sometimes this person makes me want to scream. Other times I find them joyously refreshing in their utter acceptance of who they are, and adherence to their own principles.
Is it ever acceptable to lie? Is it better to be polite or to express what you really think of the actions and beliefs of someone else?
Personally, I cannot abide dishonesty which makes it difficult, because I tend to like people.
This is not to say a lie has never passed my lips. I have lied. I was a child, and children are among the most prolific liars there are. Youthful lies tend to be lacking in malice, like those often found in those of an older age. Now that I think about it, seeing those words written, I would hazard that a vast majority of lies told by adults are also lacking in malice. It is an interesting consideration... the motivations of lies. As an adult I have caught myself lying to others and the guilt is there when I realize it. I try to tell myself it is a harmless thing. 'I was just trying to be polite'. That is my most often excuse. Someone suggests something I find offensive or ridiculous, and I thank them for their input. Am I truly grateful? No. Likely I am irritated with their contribution because I consider it silly or obtuse. But I would never, ever, dream of saying that. Of cutting them down in such a way.
Is this a harmless lie? There is a certain social contract that we maintain in society. Pleasantries to be observed, respect shown to our fellows. These are, in most cases, considered obligatory and from a young age, because of the ubiquity of this behavior, we absorb and internalize these rules from a young age. These lies are seemingly, an integral part of the fabric of social interaction. But should they be?
I consider one person that I know well, whose name will not be mentioned, that flies in the face of such conventions. Some of my interactions with this person drive me absolutely insane because of the things that they say, opinions that they voice that rend that fabric to shreds. Because they do not ascribe to the idea of maintaining that obligatory politeness. Sometimes this person makes me want to scream. Other times I find them joyously refreshing in their utter acceptance of who they are, and adherence to their own principles.
Is it ever acceptable to lie? Is it better to be polite or to express what you really think of the actions and beliefs of someone else?
Written By Lucita
June 19, 2018, 5:54 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Alaric
Lunch with the King. He is as charming and witty as ever mixed in with common sense, wisdom and wicked sense of humor that I quite enjoy.
Written By Astraea
June 19, 2018, 5:32 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Quenia
My cousin. I saw how moved you were the day before and it as saddening. Heart-wrenching to watch you suffer in any manner but most especially in a way that I couldn't comfort you. The beautiful thing about the freedom of choice is that you get to work through this however you want and the people who love you will remain by your side still.
You're an amazing woman through and through and the ordeal you're going through will pass but I can tell you now that your feelings may never be resolved and I think, like myself and no doubt many others, that there will always remain a certain mixture of emotions when thinking of him.
You're an amazing woman through and through and the ordeal you're going through will pass but I can tell you now that your feelings may never be resolved and I think, like myself and no doubt many others, that there will always remain a certain mixture of emotions when thinking of him.
Written By Aviana
June 19, 2018, 4:57 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Today I went and spoke with Aleksei, I brought him water and broth and I has known that he had a child and he broke his oaths that he took the the faith so that he could be with his son. But the more I sat their and listened to his words the more confused I became and shocked I became, I am shocked and angry to say the least. I hope that Limerance will except his penance cause the things I heard I find my mind not at ease.
Written By Iseulet
June 19, 2018, 4:36 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Today, I am honored to help Archscholar Wylla of Jayus host the Shrine Destruction ceremony. I look forward to seeing her and Sparte's ideas manifest and I hope to meet new people and see everyone show their creative side.
In other news, I now have a cat and absolutely no regrets. He gets along just fine with the puppy even though it is obvious he is now the Emperor of The Empyrean.
In other news, I now have a cat and absolutely no regrets. He gets along just fine with the puppy even though it is obvious he is now the Emperor of The Empyrean.
Written By Riagnon
June 19, 2018, 4:13 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
~/ If you go out in the woods today,
You're sure of a big surprise.
If you go out in the woods today,
You'd better go in disguise.
For every bear that ever there was,
Will gather there for certain because...
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic. /~
You're sure of a big surprise.
If you go out in the woods today,
You'd better go in disguise.
For every bear that ever there was,
Will gather there for certain because...
Today's the day the teddy bears have their picnic. /~
Written By Roxana
June 19, 2018, 12:07 p.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Eirene
"When in doubt, blame your sibling" she says.
I love you.
I love you.
Written By Quenia
June 19, 2018, 10:33 a.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
I attempted to attend the Valardin Snow Games last night. I figured watching a bit of fun, since I wasn't fealty, would be a good way to get my mind off of things. I had a splendid time talking to Marquessa Simone Greenmarch and Marquis Marius Greenmarch, but it wasn't before long that I was overcome with emotion and had to leave. Not because of either of them, but because I was recalling my time at Lucita's wedding and when I started a snowball fight with Princess Valencia and Aurelian.
I couldn't stay. I admit, with no shame, that I alternate between a varying number of emotions - which might sometimes end in tears.
I know, in time, I will start to feel better, but I would that it'd come sooner than later.
Think if I partake in a bit more reckless abandon that it wold speed that along?
I couldn't stay. I admit, with no shame, that I alternate between a varying number of emotions - which might sometimes end in tears.
I know, in time, I will start to feel better, but I would that it'd come sooner than later.
Think if I partake in a bit more reckless abandon that it wold speed that along?
Written By Eirene
June 19, 2018, 10:12 a.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Wisdom I leave to my children:
Don't ever get into an argument or discussion via people's White Journals. Just roll your eyes at their stupidity and leave it for future generations to roll their eyes at.
Weapons are your friends as long as you hold them the right way. People, on the other hand, it doesn't matter how you hold them - you might still get hurt. The less you hold on to them the better your chances are that won't happen.
When in doubt, blame your sibling. Even if it's out of character for them, it's expected of you.
Don't ever get into an argument or discussion via people's White Journals. Just roll your eyes at their stupidity and leave it for future generations to roll their eyes at.
Weapons are your friends as long as you hold them the right way. People, on the other hand, it doesn't matter how you hold them - you might still get hurt. The less you hold on to them the better your chances are that won't happen.
When in doubt, blame your sibling. Even if it's out of character for them, it's expected of you.
Written By Sina
June 19, 2018, 10:11 a.m.(1/16/1009 AR)
Today I've decided to visit the Shrine of Gild as I continue my tour of the shrines and holy places within the city. So far, I have visited the Shrine of Mangata, and her altar and statue on the beach, the Shrine of the Lost, and the Shrine of the Queen of Endings. It is a very small start, and I have much further to go, but I am determined to visit each and every one, that I might learn more about the Gods and pray.
So, on to Gild. Goddess of wayward travelers and pilgrims, Goddess of charity, Goddess of good fortune and prosperity. And so I go to pray.
So, on to Gild. Goddess of wayward travelers and pilgrims, Goddess of charity, Goddess of good fortune and prosperity. And so I go to pray.
Written By Kritr
June 19, 2018, 8:54 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
Our Lodge has been built here in the city along the area known as the Shaman walk. There are even walls inside and a stool to sit on for guests. It is a house, but not yet a Home. Hopefully with time it will become one.
Written By Archeron
June 19, 2018, 6:46 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Fredrik
It is easy to only think of our losses. The cousins I played with, a father who grows fainter in my memory each year, servants who cared for us, and a home I could not return to for 12 years, a name I could not claim. Yet, we should remember how others suffered, on both sides. The Redtydes fell early, because they held true to their oaths. It seems cruel that your reward for that is more loss now, even as the last of your house. I suppose news that some forswore the Compact, would rather live outside of it than under Donrai, it does mean there may be some of your relatives who might return to the compact now things have changed. Though, I am surprised the intensity with which grudges can be held for all these years - Reveka and her hunt for justice seems so futile now.
You know if we can help, we will. You honoured your oaths, we have always honoured ours.
You know if we can help, we will. You honoured your oaths, we have always honoured ours.
Written By Valencia
June 19, 2018, 3:53 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
We had the joyous occasion of hosting our twentieth Sip n'Spar event at the Hart the other night. In celebration, we had a special prize draw for those who attended for a truly stunning emerald and gold ring created by the very talented Master Asher Grayhope.
As always, it was a wonderful event and we couldn't be more happy. And now, as promised, with the greatest of pleasure, I would like to announce the winners of the Golden Hart's Sip n'Spar XX event. Please join me in congratulating:
Match One: Prince Barric of Grayson
Match Two: Princess Sorrel of Thrax
Match Three: Prince Barric of Grayson
Match Four: Lady Ariella of Igniseri
Prize Draw: Lady Octavia of Kennex
Once again, a heartfelt hank you again to one and all who bring their talents both in and out of the ring, good company, generous spirit and smiling faces to this and all our Hart events. And, special thanks to Master Asher for his kind generosity in sharing his incredible talents with us.
I have said this before and will say again that we are so very lucky to have all of you in our Hart.
Thank you again to everyone who has joined us, been a supporter and avid patron. Wishing you light, luck and love!
~~~~<~<@
(ooc: Please see https://bit.ly/2GWWMqx for our list of Hart event winners. Again, thank you to everyone for making these events so much fun! <3)
As always, it was a wonderful event and we couldn't be more happy. And now, as promised, with the greatest of pleasure, I would like to announce the winners of the Golden Hart's Sip n'Spar XX event. Please join me in congratulating:
Match One: Prince Barric of Grayson
Match Two: Princess Sorrel of Thrax
Match Three: Prince Barric of Grayson
Match Four: Lady Ariella of Igniseri
Prize Draw: Lady Octavia of Kennex
Once again, a heartfelt hank you again to one and all who bring their talents both in and out of the ring, good company, generous spirit and smiling faces to this and all our Hart events. And, special thanks to Master Asher for his kind generosity in sharing his incredible talents with us.
I have said this before and will say again that we are so very lucky to have all of you in our Hart.
Thank you again to everyone who has joined us, been a supporter and avid patron. Wishing you light, luck and love!
~~~~<~<@
(ooc: Please see https://bit.ly/2GWWMqx for our list of Hart event winners. Again, thank you to everyone for making these events so much fun! <3)
Written By Katarina
June 19, 2018, 2:12 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
I'm pleased to hear that so many people seem to have enjoyed the Warsnow Games. The event was such a fun and exciting thing to plan that I'm genuinely considering doing it again next year. If I don't, I fear Terese will REALLY try to brag about being Champion of the Snows until the end of time at every opportunity. I can't have that. She'd drive me crazy.
Speaking of, I am nothing if not a honorable woman of my word. I will not retaliate against Princess Terese Valardin for the next forty-eight hours no matter what sort of pranks she comes up with to annoy me. I will not have all her furniture replaced with garishly bright pink furniture for forty-eight hours...
... Gods, help me. How am I going to make it that long? She's going to do something terrible. I just know it.
Speaking of, I am nothing if not a honorable woman of my word. I will not retaliate against Princess Terese Valardin for the next forty-eight hours no matter what sort of pranks she comes up with to annoy me. I will not have all her furniture replaced with garishly bright pink furniture for forty-eight hours...
... Gods, help me. How am I going to make it that long? She's going to do something terrible. I just know it.
Written By Snow
June 19, 2018, 1:03 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
Today I will go out and start the hunt for the berries and the flowers needed to work on the first perfumes I will need to sell. I hope the people here will enjoy them, for I do not know if I am as prepared as others.
Written By Snow
June 19, 2018, 1:01 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Appolonia
It is always a wonder to me how many of the people here seem invested in me with such little they know me. But I think it is helping me form friends. It is with joy that I tell the scribes this, knowing that someone will read it. When I had prayed I had ask for guidance, and a way to find my way in this strange city with it's strange customs and it's many peoples. And I have been given opportunity, and Things to think about and people who are interested in not only giving me instruction on the gods, but also to leave me to choose what it is that I think about them. Thank you Lady of the house I cannot remember, with the long name and all your patience with me, and hopefully friendship will be found.
Written By Alejandro
June 19, 2018, 12:35 a.m.(1/15/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Calista
I have known Duchess Calista since before I can even remember. We were raised together, grew up together, endured together, and came to Arx together a few years back. I have watched her grow and come into her own and now she rules Tor. It's strange but also fitting. I serve her and I would desire nothing else for my life's path.
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