Written By Wylla
June 20, 2018, 11:35 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
People seemed to like the idea, I think!
Written By Sparte
June 20, 2018, 11:30 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
It is the value it has been given, by those who make it and those who see it. By those who pray, who dream, who believe, and who doubt.
I hope. I am disinclined to believe hope gives any value, but I do it anyway. I wonder why that is? Is isn't quite belief, it isn't quite doubt. Hope is uncertainty without denial of possibility. Hope is potential.
I want these rocks, however small and varied, to have potential. I hope others will want the same.
Written By Fredrik
June 20, 2018, 11:27 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Reigna
Subject: Acceptable Lying
Is it ever acceptable? Well, that is a very difficult question, because what is socially acceptable changes throughout history. For example, before a few weeks ago it was socially acceptable for a shaman to work as a Mercy, provided they venerated Lagoma. This is not to comment on the Dominus' edict or it's righteousness, merely to show that what is acceptable changes often, and that includes what it is acceptable to omit or lie about. Without the lie of omission, one is asked to answer challenges, be lambasted in the Whites, or even be persecuted, depending on the strength of that which they hold in different view from the social norm. But while I can waggle my hand at the acceptability of it socially, when it comes to it being /necessary/?
Yes. Sometimes it is absolutely necessary. A lie kept me alive for almost twenty years while my family was hunted down and killed. Whether we deserved it or not is immaterial for this discussion, because the point stands that if I had not lied to the Thrax, and to anyone else that asked during those years? I would have been murdered in a brutal fashion, and most likely my adopted ones and my crew would have been as well. So yes, sometimes it is absolutely necessary, even if not acceptable.
An extreme example, I admit it, but it is the one I have, even if I know almost nobody will have to be put in those extremes and thus it is not relevant to them.
Written By Oswyn
June 20, 2018, 11:24 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
I'll have to borrow a number of maps to copy. Possibly I can work on the new project while on my journey with Lady Nightgold.
Written By Derovai
June 20, 2018, 11:20 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Quenia
I think I'd rearrange those priorities a bit, although I doubt you meant the implication of this arrangement as putting oneself first. In any case: the lives of others in general, then those of people surrounding you, then your own life. Lying to save your own life in advance of lying to save others' strikes me as being somewhat ethically unsound, but lying to save another's may be an extremely ethical deed, depending on the lie itself and the circumstances surrounding it.
Written By Reigna
June 20, 2018, 10:38 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Derovai
Written By Merek
June 20, 2018, 9:52 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Written By Merek
June 20, 2018, 9:44 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Jacali
Written By Merek
June 20, 2018, 9:42 a.m.(1/18/1009 AR)
Written By Gwenna
June 20, 2018, 8:58 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Arik
Written By Gwenna
June 20, 2018, 8:50 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Marian
Written By Hadrian
June 20, 2018, 8:25 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Cambria
Written By Quenia
June 20, 2018, 8:15 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Reigna
I learned that lesson the hard way. I told him I was dealing with family issues, that were unavoidable, to delay the wedding until the investigation ended. I suppose you could argue that it was true, it was. But, I still had doubts at that time, and having a hard time wrapping my head around the fact that he could have done the things others said he'd done. I wasn't sure, and I felt all the poorly for it. Each single day after that was excruciating. But, then, he lied to me first. And, his lie was was so, so much worse than the one I had to tell. His omission too, when I told him that others had betrayed me in the past, and that I was wary of a relationship. But, I let one foster and grow, and he'd betrayed me as others have.
So, yes. In some cases. I think it is acceptable. But, it doesn't make you feel any better for having done it, or any less a liar, even if it saved lives.
Written By Edward
June 20, 2018, 8:04 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Vanora
Written By Cullen
June 20, 2018, 7:05 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Written By Arik
June 20, 2018, 3:09 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Eilonwy
Written By Prisila
June 20, 2018, 2:08 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Written By Derovai
June 20, 2018, 1:55 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Reigna
Written By Reigna
June 20, 2018, 1:35 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Derovai
Asking the same question in multiple ways is really only an acceptable tactic if the person you are asking is not understanding. Otherwise one might think that you are trying to influence the answers you receive.
Written By Lys
June 20, 2018, 1 a.m.(1/17/1009 AR)
Please note that the scholars may take some time preparing your journal for others to read.