Written By Preston
Dec. 16, 2018, 3:35 p.m.(3/8/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Felix
Dec. 9, 2018, 11:19 p.m.(2/23/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Carmen
Dec. 6, 2018, 8:37 a.m.(2/15/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
I'm serious. You can't make someone be kind when kindness means "not silent". Can't make people do most things, as point of fact, no matter how much you poke and prod. They get a say, even if it's to say naught. So drink or throw things or be not silent to someone in need or whatever else helps you deal with it.
Assuming, you know, you've told her or him there's a problem instead of meandering over it here. Not to say there is a problem. We're just talking in a general way about kindness or some such.
Written By Kaldur
Dec. 6, 2018, 1 a.m.(2/14/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
There are times when words can offer no help or no healing. Times when words however well-intentioned are an intrusion. That's why, I think, that the phrase is that you'll 'be there' for someone. My mother used to hate it when she got sick. She hated being fussed over and handled with kid gloves. The biggest kindness we could do her whenever she took ill was to look in on her periodically and let her recover as she chose: in solitude.
So... I guess, to the heart of the question, kindness isn't even the old saw of 'doing unto others as you'd have done to you,' or, rather it is, but even more so... learning what someone else wants done for them and doing that, even - or especially - when it runs counter to what you'd want done. And, of course, it's not as simple as that. Nothing ever is. Now... what was I here for? Oh! New page, please, good Scholar.
Written By Lance
Nov. 30, 2018, 3:38 a.m.(2/2/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
I have yet to put any of that to any manner of test, but... that's what I remember.
Written By Forato
Nov. 27, 2018, 12:36 p.m.(1/25/1010 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Jyri
Nov. 8, 2018, 12:15 p.m.(12/15/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
'My dogs really like you, and I figure you're not half bad.'
How's that?
Also, thank you for all that you've done for me the last few months.
Written By Vanora
Nov. 6, 2018, 12:55 p.m.(12/11/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Sina
Oct. 30, 2018, 2:11 p.m.(11/25/1009 AR)
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Written By Elora
Oct. 15, 2018, 8:45 a.m.(10/13/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
I am never drinking that coffee again.
Ever.
Written By Skye
Sept. 28, 2018, 12:33 a.m.(9/7/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Lucita
Sept. 27, 2018, 7:14 p.m.(9/6/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Lou
Sept. 26, 2018, 6:07 a.m.(9/3/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Imane
Sept. 25, 2018, 11:29 p.m.(9/3/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Harper
Sept. 7, 2018, 6:38 p.m.(7/20/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Lou
Aug. 30, 2018, 4:18 p.m.(6/28/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Written By Tabitha
Aug. 28, 2018, 10:31 p.m.(6/24/1009 AR)
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Written By Delilah
Aug. 2, 2018, 2:46 p.m.(4/23/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
In our line of work, that's a valuable thing.
Written By Kenna
Aug. 1, 2018, 7:28 p.m.(4/21/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
Tiny Tom really isn't the best influence on Sally. She's doing very unprincesslike things lately, and doesn't seem to want to ride about on my corner any more.
At least Muffin still loves me though.
Written By Prisila
July 29, 2018, 5:20 p.m.(4/15/1009 AR)
Relationship Note on Sparte
"First think of the person who lives in disguise,
Who deals in secrets and tells naught but lies.
Next, tell me what’s always the last thing to mend,
The middle of middle and end of the end?
And finally give me the sound often heard
During the search for a hard-to-find word.
Now string them together, and answer me this,
Which creature would you be unwilling to kiss?"
Messere Sparte this time you can hazard a guess but in the missive you should be more colorful. Literally. I like opening colorful messages.
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